Do you struggle to communicate effectively with your significant other? Do you feel as though what you’re trying to say just isn’t getting through? Do you just want to learn how to be friends again with your spouse?
Is there a struggle within your marriage?
Did you wake up one day and think, “How did we get here?” Are you feeling overwhelmed and exhausted? Is your marriage not representing the ideal you believed it would be? If you’ve answered “Yes” to any of these questions, you are not alone. Many couples feel as though they try to communicate, try to get their ideas across, only to find their messages aren’t being heard by their spouse. Time and time again, you notice that the harder you try to make it better, things only seem to get worse.
Feeling stressed, isolated and desperate for peace, couples often choose to end their relationship prematurely, without realizing the full potential of what their marriage could be, without getting to experience feeling part of a team.
Do you want that spark or connection with your spouse to return? Do you want to improve your marriage?
We believe that ALL marriages can be saved. Many couples wonder if they have what it takes to heal. All it takes is a couple who is willing to invest the time and effort to revitalize their relationship! Counseling provides you and your partner that opportunity. You can discuss your communication styles and your relationship with one another without the risk of being immediately shut-down, ignored, or disputed. Counseling helps both of your voices be heard. There you can create a game plan of how to move your relationship forward. There you can learn to get along, communicate better, feel connected, and be happy together.
You might be wondering, “But what if my partner won’t come?”
This is a common concern. Speak to your partner about your desire for counseling and to improve your relationship. If he or she is resistant to the idea of counseling, ask your partner if they would consider speaking to a counselor over the phone to answer any questions they might have. If you notice that your partner is still not interested, call for a free phone consultation to discuss your next steps. Couples counseling can still work even if only one person begins the process.
“What if counseling makes our fighting worse?”
When people consider couples counseling some worry their partner will not appreciate what is shared during a session and that it will create a fight when they get home afterward. Others are afraid their partner will reveal a secret such as having an affair. We will structure our sessions so that the environment is a safe place to share what is on your heart. There are risks when it comes to counseling. Sometimes things feel like they get worse before they get better, but your relationship cannot change unless you invest the time and energy toward improvement.
Your marriage is worth fighting for! Take that step today. Reduce conflict. Reduce arguments. No more walking on eggshells. Feel calm and relaxed in your home again. Make your connection stronger than ever! Call now: 321-345-9129